Most wedding bows include a promise to stay together not only in good times but also during times of trouble- in poverty or wealth, in sickness and in health. According to National Institute of Mental Health, about 26.2 percent of Americans (18 and older) are suffering with mental illness which constitutes marriages with a spouse who is mentally sick. It could be considered challenging and judgments are easier to give when one is looking outside the relationship. But for those who have a relationship with someone who has a mental condition, here are some things that you need to know.
Most mental disorders require long-term healing - Unlike physical illnesses which can be prevented or treated in an instant, mental illnesses, according to Huffingtonpost.com are complex since they start in the brain.
Their sickness doesn't make them crazy - U.S. Department of Health and Human Service reported, one out of five Americans may experience a mental condition and a lot of them revealed feeling stigmatized by friends, families and other people. The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention releases a 2007 study result that shows only 25 percent of mentally ill people feel that the people sympathized or understand their situation. Everyone is encouraged to treat mental illness the same way physical ailment is viewed.
Mental illness can be controlled - Limitless solutions are open to those who have mental disorders. These include therapies, support group and exercises. The other party or those taking care of persons who are mentally sick should not feel hopeless but rather seek help and take the available health care opportunities.
Showing genuine love and support help - Adam Kaplin, an associate professor in the departments of psychiatry and neurology at Johns Hopkins stated, "It's helpful to remind them that the feelings are temporary and you'll be right there with them." Showing affection and patience can increase their self-esteem and bring out positive attitude in them.
Asking them questions is acceptable- Understanding how they feel and their condition can assist in helping them better. Do not hesitate to ask questions but at the the same time do not push them to answer.
Your efforts are not wasted. People suffering from mental condition may not express themselves openly, yet the support their getting from those they love is essential in the healing process.
Lee Knifton, co-author of a Scotland campaign focused on eliminating negative treatment on people with mental illnesses said, "When the population gets a better sense of how many people with mental illness are actually successful-if more people come out of the closet-perhaps the stigma of mental illness will finally decline."
